A few days ago I read the fol\u00adlo\u00adwing lines as a com\u00adment on a video tit\u00adled \"If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND<\/span> and KEEP<\/span> LOVE<\/span>\"<\/a><\/p>\n Love is all about [four things]: That's whe\u00adre the com\u00adment ended (except for one more sen\u00adtence, more or less vary\u00ading the abo\u00adve bul\u00adlet points) and I thought 'some\u00adthing is still miss\u00ading!'. Later that day I added the fol\u00adlo\u00adwing two items May\u00adbe 7) relia\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adty should be added to wrap up the description. Being clo\u00adse to 80 I don't real\u00adly need to find this out by rea\u00adding a com\u00adment pro\u00adba\u00adb\u00adly writ\u00adten by a per\u00adson youn\u00adger than one quar\u00adter of the age I'm at. But it's always worth it to have an ear on the track to under\u00adstand what youn\u00adger gene\u00adra\u00adti\u00adons think .... sur\u00adpri\u00adsin\u00adgly, this per\u00adson missed all the long term needs to main\u00adtain a lasting love. Tho\u00adse three trust, altru\u00adism and relia\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adty can't be pro\u00adven instant\u00adly, they have to slow\u00adly grow thro\u00aduh time to be accept\u00aded and believed.<\/p>\n The cur\u00adrent divorce rates sug\u00adgest a dif\u00adfe\u00adrent set of personalities. \nVor ein paar Tagen habe ich die fol\u00adgen\u00adden Zei\u00adlen als Kom\u00admen\u00adtar zu einem Video mit dem Titel \" Sie m\u00f6ch\u00adten wis\u00adsen, was es braucht, um die Lie\u00adbe zu fin\u00adden und zu hal\u00adten \"<\/a> gelesen.<\/p>\n Bei der Lie\u00adbe dreht sich alles um [vier Dinge]: Hier ende\u00adte der Kom\u00admen\u00adtar (mit Aus\u00adnah\u00adme eines wei\u00adte\u00adren Sat\u00adzes, der mehr oder weni\u00adger die oben genann\u00adten Auf\u00adz\u00e4h\u00adlungs\u00adpunk\u00adte vari\u00adier\u00adte), und ich dach\u00adte, 'etwas fehlt immer noch!'. Sp\u00e4\u00adter an die\u00adsem Tag f\u00fcg\u00adte ich die fol\u00adgen\u00adden zwei Ele\u00admen\u00adte hinzu Viel\u00adleicht soll\u00adte 7) Zuver\u00adl\u00e4s\u00adsig\u00adkeit hin\u00adzu\u00adge\u00adf\u00fcgt wer\u00adden, um die Beschrei\u00adbung kom\u00adplett zu machen. Da ich fast 80 bin, muss ich das nicht wirk\u00adlich her\u00adaus\u00adfin\u00adden indem ich einen Kom\u00admen\u00adtar lese, der wahr\u00adschein\u00adlich von einer Per\u00adson stammt, die ein Vier\u00adtel mei\u00adnes Alters z\u00e4hlt. Aber es lohnt sich immer, ein Ohr auf der Schie\u00adne zu haben, um zu ver\u00adste\u00adhen, was die j\u00fcn\u00adge\u00adren Gene\u00adra\u00adtio\u00adnen den\u00adken ... \u00fcber\u00adra\u00adschen\u00adder\u00adwei\u00adse ver\u00adga\u00df die\u00adse Per\u00adson was lang\u00adfri\u00adstig n\u00f6tig ist um eine dau\u00ader\u00adhaf\u00adte Lie\u00adbe auf\u00adrecht\u00adzu\u00ader\u00adhal\u00adten. Die\u00adse drei Punk\u00adte, Ver\u00adtrau\u00aden, Altru\u00adis\u00admus und Zuver\u00adl\u00e4s\u00adsig\u00adkeit k\u00f6n\u00adnen nicht sofort nach\u00adge\u00adwie\u00adsen wer\u00adden, sie m\u00fcs\u00adsen lang\u00adsam durch die Zeit wach\u00adsen, um akzep\u00adtiert und geglaubt zu werden.<\/p>\n Die aktu\u00adel\u00adle Schei\u00addungs\u00adra\u00adte sug\u00adge\u00adriert eine ande\u00adre Kon\u00adstel\u00adla\u00adti\u00adon an Eigenschaften. A few days ago I read the fol\u00adlo\u00adwing lines as a com\u00adment on a video tit\u00adled \"If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND<\/span> and KEEP<\/span> LOVE<\/span>\" Love is all about [four things]: 1) Respec\u00adting; 2) com\u00admu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adti\u00adon; 3) under\u00adstan\u00adding; 4) respon\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adty. 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\n1) Respecting;
\n2) communication;
\n3) understanding;
\n4) responsibility.<\/em><\/p>\n
\n5) trust
\n6) altruism<\/p>\n
\nRight, this is equal\u00adly important.
\nStill, may\u00adbe the ran\u00adking, the order isn't per\u00adfect, but complete.<\/p>\n
\nMay\u00adbe it's actual\u00adly 'con\u00adsi\u00adsten\u00adcy' instead of 'relia\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adty'? Or both?
\nThe Times They Are A-Changin' ....<\/a><\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.vonsulecki.com\/Bilder_2018\/08_2018\/arbsk-5a.png\")
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\n1) Respekt;
\n2) Kommunikation;
\n3) Verst\u00e4ndnis;
\n4) Verantwortung.<\/em><\/p>\n
\n5) Vertrauen
\n6) Altru\u00adis\u00admus (\/ Selbstlosigkeit)<\/p>\n
\nJa, rich\u00adtig, das ist genau\u00adso wichtig.
\nTrotz\u00addem, viel\u00adleicht ist die Rang\u00adli\u00adste der Auf\u00adstel\u00adlung nicht per\u00adfekt, aber vollst\u00e4ndig.<\/p>\n
\nM\u00f6g\u00adli\u00adcher\u00adwei\u00adse ist es tat\u00ads\u00e4ch\u00adlich daher eher 'Best\u00e4n\u00addig\u00adkeit' und nicht 'Zuver\u00adl\u00e4s\u00adsig\u00adkeit'? Oder Beides?
\nThe Times They Are A-Changin' ....<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"