{"id":13161,"date":"2010-09-10T03:01:06","date_gmt":"2010-09-10T01:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/weblog\/wordpress\/\/?p=13161"},"modified":"2010-09-10T03:01:59","modified_gmt":"2010-09-10T01:01:59","slug":"5-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/5-5\/","title":{"rendered":"5 + 5 ...."},"content":{"rendered":"
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W\u00f6rt\u00adli\u00adches Zitat aus die\u00adser Quelle:
\n\"5 Worries Par\u00adents Should Drop, And 5 They Shouldn't\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\"<\/span> .. It turns out most par\u00adents are worry\u00ading about all the wrong things. The\u00adse worries that we have are so rare,\" says Chri\u00adstie Bar\u00adnes, mother of four and aut\u00adhor of \"\"The Para\u00adno\u00adid Par\u00adents Gui\u00adde\"\". It\u2019s like pack\u00ading a snow sho\u00advel in case it snows in Las Vegas. Based on sur\u00adveys Bar\u00adnes coll\u00adec\u00adted, the top five worries of par\u00adents are, in order:<\/i><\/p>\n

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  1. Kid\u00adnap\u00adping<\/li>\n
  2. School sni\u00adpers <\/li>\n
  3. Ter\u00adro\u00adrists<\/li>\n
  4. Dan\u00adge\u00adrous strangers<\/li>\n
  5. Drugs <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    But how do child\u00adren real\u00adly get hurt or killed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. Car acci\u00addents<\/li>\n
    2. Homic\u00adi\u00adde - usual\u00adly com\u00admit\u00adted by a per\u00adson who knows the child, not a stranger<\/li>\n
    3. Abu\u00adse<\/li>\n
    4. Sui\u00adci\u00adde<\/li>\n
    5. Drow\u00adning<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Why such a big dis\u00adcrepan\u00adcy bet\u00adween worries and rea\u00adli\u00adty? Bar\u00adnes says par\u00adents fix\u00ada\u00adte on rare events becau\u00adse they inter\u00adna\u00adli\u00adze hor\u00adri\u00adfic sto\u00adries they hear on the news or from a fri\u00adend wit\u00adhout stop\u00adping to think about the odds the same thing could hap\u00adpen to their children.<\/p>\n

      \"<\/span>I\u2019d love it if every news sto\u00adry came with a litt\u00adle war\u00adning at the bot\u00adtom that said, 'Even though this is very tra\u00adgic, this is 1 in 10 mil\u00adli\u00adon, 1 in a mil\u00adli\u00adon or 1 in 20', \" says Barnes.<\/p>\n

      This unneces\u00adsa\u00adry worry\u00ading, she argues, is detri\u00admen\u00adtal to par\u00adents. The stress worry-wracked par\u00adents endu\u00adre can harm their health and their rela\u00adti\u00adon\u00adships with other adults. Also, focu\u00adsing on rare dan\u00adgers dis\u00adtracts par\u00adents from the dan\u00adgers that matter.<\/p>\n

      As for child\u00adren, Bar\u00adnes says that over\u00adpro\u00adtec\u00adti\u00adve\u00adness will hurt them in the long run by making them less resi\u00adli\u00adent. \"We\u2019re tea\u00adching them to be hel\u00adp\u00adless,\" she says. \"And becau\u00adse we\u2019re<\/em> so afraid of the world, we\u2019re tea\u00adching them<\/em> to be afraid of the world .. \"<\/p>\n

      <\/p><\/blockquote>\n

      Mei\u00adne Ver\u00admu\u00adtung ist, da\u00df man das auch auf unse\u00adre Ver\u00adh\u00e4lt\u00adnis\u00adse 1:1 \u00fcber\u00adtra\u00adgen kann. Nimmt man dann noch die - von der ein\u00adschl\u00e4\u00adgi\u00adgen Pres\u00adse, den Her\u00adstel\u00adlern und den \"Ratgeber\"-Schreibern gern genutz\u00adten The\u00admen \"Hygie\u00adne\", \"Krank\u00adheit\" und \"Schul\u00adver\u00adsa\u00adgen\" dazu, so wird unge\u00adf\u00e4hr deut\u00adlich war\u00adum sich vie\u00adle jun\u00adge Eltern total \u00fcber\u00adfor\u00addert f\u00fch\u00adlen m\u00fcs\u00adsen<\/u> ....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      W\u00f6rt\u00adli\u00adches Zitat aus die\u00adser Quel\u00adle: \"5 Worries Par\u00adents Should Drop, And 5 They Shouldn't\" \" .. It turns out most par\u00adents are worry\u00ading about all the wrong things. The\u00adse worries that we have are so rare,\" says Chri\u00adstie Bar\u00adnes, mother of four and aut\u00adhor of \"\"The Para\u00adno\u00adid Par\u00adents Gui\u00adde\"\". It\u2019s like pack\u00ading a snow shovel [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":561,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13161","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-allgemein"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/561"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13161"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13161\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}