{"id":73629,"date":"2015-03-04T09:13:13","date_gmt":"2015-03-04T08:13:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/?p=73629"},"modified":"2015-03-04T03:15:45","modified_gmt":"2015-03-04T02:15:45","slug":"gesellschaftsfaehig","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/gesellschaftsfaehig\/","title":{"rendered":"\"Gesellschaftsf\u00e4hig\"!?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"__iawmlf-post-loop-links\" style=\"display:none;\" 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beti\u00adtelt ist, Unter\u00adti\u00adtel <em>\"Peit\u00adschen\u00adsex und Fes\u00adsel\u00adlie\u00adbe\", \"Wis\u00adsen\u00adschaft\u00adle\u00adrin forscht zu 'Shades of Grey'\"<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Ein Satz aus dem Arti\u00adkel fiel mir ins&nbsp;Auge:<br>\n<em>\" .. und weni\u00adger als ein Drit\u00adtel w\u00fcr\u00adde die Sexu\u00adal\u00adprak\u00adti\u00adken der Roma\u00adne aus\u00adpro\u00adbie\u00adren .. \"<\/em> - das sagt doch aus, dass es zwar Ver\u00adst\u00e4nd\u00adnis und Neu\u00adgier\u00adde gibt, aller\u00addings ein Nach\u00adah\u00admungs\u00adwil\u00adle nicht sehr aus\u00adge\u00adpr\u00e4gt&nbsp;ist.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mein Paten\u00adon\u00adkel sag\u00adte zu sowas immer <em>\"Igitt, igitt wie sch\u00f6n!\"<\/em>. Was f\u00fcr mich eine gewis\u00adse Attrak\u00adti\u00advi\u00adt\u00e4t sol\u00adcher Prak\u00adti\u00adken f\u00fcr vie\u00adle Men\u00adschen bedeu\u00adtet, gleich\u00adzei\u00adtig aber auch eine Unsi\u00adcher\u00adheit ob das denn die Form der Lie\u00adbe ist die sie akzep\u00adtie\u00adren k\u00f6nnten.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Die Rezen\u00adsi\u00adon von Herrn Wer\u00admelt ist au\u00dfer\u00ador\u00addent\u00adlich sach\u00adlich geschrie\u00adben - und mir fehlt eine per\u00ads\u00f6n\u00adli\u00adche Stel\u00adlung\u00adnah\u00adme zum The\u00adma. Ein Blog ist schlie\u00df\u00adlich ein Medi\u00adum das Dis\u00adkus\u00adsi\u00adon zu Mei\u00adnung, Stim\u00admung und gesell\u00adschaft\u00adli\u00adcher Str\u00f6\u00admung zul\u00e4\u00dft und gera\u00adde\u00adzu herausfordert.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Des\u00adwe\u00adgen hier mei\u00adne Auf\u00adfas\u00adsung zum Thema:<\/p>\n<p>Ich fin\u00adde es abar\u00adtig wenn ein nat\u00fcr\u00adli\u00adches Bed\u00fcrf\u00adnis wie Sexua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e4t nur dann zu Befrie\u00addi\u00adgung f\u00fchrt wenn es mit Schmerz oder psy\u00adchi\u00adscher Aberra\u00adti\u00adon<strong>*<\/strong> ver\u00adbun\u00adden wird. Teil der Sexua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e4t ist zwar Aggres\u00adsi\u00advi\u00adt\u00e4t, d.h. das Ein\u00addrin\u00adgen in die <a href=\"https:\/\/de.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Intime_Zone\" target=\"_blank\">Inti\u00adme Zone<\/a> [<a href=\"https:\/\/de.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Individualdistanz\" target=\"_blank\">Indi\u00advi\u00addu\u00adal\u00addi\u00adstanz<\/a>] eines ande\u00adren Men\u00adschen, aber gleich\u00adzei\u00adtig gewollt und zuge\u00adlas\u00adsen von den Betroffenen.<br>\n<span style=\"font-size:108%\"><font face=\"Ubuntu\"><br>\nWenn die Aggres\u00adsi\u00adon \u00dcber\u00adhand gewinnt ist nicht nur der bio\u00adlo\u00adgi\u00adsche Zweck von Sexua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e4t, son\u00addern auch der einer sexu\u00adel\u00adlen Ver\u00adei\u00adni\u00adgung inne\u00adwoh\u00adnen\u00adde Gedan\u00adke der see\u00adlisch-k\u00f6r\u00adper\u00adli\u00adchen Ver\u00adbin\u00addung verfehlt.<br>\n<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Anders aus\u00adge\u00addr\u00fcckt:<br>\n\"Sexu\u00adel\u00adle Prak\u00adti\u00adken\" sind mit \"Lie\u00adbe\" unvereinbar.<br>\n<\/p><center><span style=\"font-size:77%\">&nbsp;\u30fb \ue467 \u26ab \ue467 \u30fb&nbsp;<\/span><\/center>\n<p><strong>*<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/de.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/Aberration\" target=\"_blank\">[[4] Psy\u00adcho\u00adlo\u00adgie: eine leich\u00adte psy\u00adchi\u00adsche St\u00f6rung]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>. Es gab in der Ver\u00adgan\u00adgen\u00adheit soge\u00adnann\u00adte \"gesell\u00adschaft\u00adli\u00adche Tabus\", also pri\u00adva\u00adte Sach\u00adver\u00adhal\u00adte in Sachen Sexua\u00adli\u00adt\u00e4t, die nie in die \u00d6ffent\u00adlich\u00adkeit gezerrt wur\u00adden. Das war auch gut&nbsp;so. Wie ich auf das The\u00adma kom\u00adme? Ich habe in mei\u00adnen Links gele\u00adsen und bin auf einen Arti\u00adkel von Rai\u00adner Wer\u00admelt gesto\u00ad\u00dfen der mit \"Ist Sado\u00adma\u00adso\u00adchis\u00admus salon\u00adf\u00e4\u00adhig?\" beti\u00adtelt ist, Untertitel&nbsp;[\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":561,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[541,151,1301,1681,41],"tags":[4429,5285,4428,4427],"class_list":["post-73629","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blick-zuruck","category-drei-fragezeichen","category-grundsatzliches","category-mensch-mensch","category-zeitgeist","tag-bizarr","tag-gesellschaft","tag-pervers","tag-sm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73629","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/561"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=73629"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73629\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=73629"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=73629"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.re-actio.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=73629"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}